David Heiller
Our family had a
scare last Friday evening. Our daughter, Malika, was jumping on our trampoline. It’s the round kind that is sold at stores like
Sam’s.
I was working in the
garage when I heard Mollie calling for me. I went to the trampoline, where she
was lying. She could barely move. She said she had tried to do a knee flip and
had hurt her neck.
I helped her off the trampoline and walked her
to her bed. She walked stiffly. Her neck hurt so bad that she wanted to go to
bed at 8 on a Friday night. That worried me.
I went back outside.
My wife, Cindy, was on her way home from Minneapolis, so I was on my own. My
mind was working on a couple things.
One thing was the fact that I tend not to take
injuries seriously. Like last December when Mollie chipped a bone in her ankle
while skating. Or when she had an appendicitis a month ago. So I was thinking, “Maybe she isn’t really hurt. But
maybe she is.”
The second thing was WHERE she was hurt. A neck
injury while doing a flip on the trampoline? That worried me. I know people who
are quadraplegics from neck
injuries. I had heard that sometimes a neck would be fractured and the person
wouldn’t even know it and the wrong movement would cause a total break and
paralysis.
So after 10 minutes of this thinking, I went
back upstairs and asked Mollie how she felt. She said she could hardly move her
neck, it hurt so bad. She was sitting up reading. I made her lie down, and told
her to lie still.
Then I called Mercy Hospital and told a nurse
what had happened.
“Does she have any tingling sensation in her fingers
and toes?” the nurse asked. Yes, Mollie said she did.
“Is she dizzy at
all?” Yes, Mollie said she was. “If she was my daughter, I’d call an ambulance,”
the nurse told me.
“Can’t I bring her
in?” I asked.
“No, she shouldn’t move her neck or head at all,”
she said.
Malika doing homework on her trampoline. |
I did not want to call an ambulance. What if it
was nothing? But as I looked at my healthy daughter lying in front of me, very
sore and very afraid, I thought, “What if her spine is fractured?”
I called 9-1-1. The phone rang dozens of times,
but no one answered. So I called Mercy back. “We’ve been waiting for the
dispatch from Pine City,” the nurse said.
“I can’t get through
to Pine City. Can you call the ambulance?”
“Yes. But keep
trying 9-1-1.”
‘So I did, for another five minutes. The phone
must have rung 100 times or more, but no one answered.
Mercy called back, and said the ambulance was on
its way. Then the 9-1-1 dispatcher called from Pine City. She said Mercy Hospital
had called them. The dispatcher sounded alarmed that my 9-1-1 call hadn’t gone
through. She said she would call the telephone company to see what was wrong.
Time moved slowly then. Waiting. Wondering what
life would be like for Mollie, and for us, if she was paralyzed. It was a grim
thought.
First responders
Then the first responders started coming. First
Mary Cronin, who lives just a mile away. Then Veronica and Rick Borchardt, then
a whole bunch of others from the Sturgeon Lake and Willow River first
responders.
I knew all of them, but I had never seen them in
action like this. It’s hard to describe how good it felt having them there. My
worry started to subside.
Then the ambulance crew came. They and the first
responders put Mollie on a back board. They taped her and strapped her so that
she could barely move. Then they took her, in a sitting position, down our
stairs, which was very tricky. Then it was another careful transfer onto the
ambulance gurney, and then into the ambulance.
Shortly after we hit County Road 46, we met
Cindy coming home. I wondered how she would react when she saw all the first
responders at our house.
I rode up front with EMT Jeff Fisher. He was very calm. That made me feel
better. We talked about kids, how
hard it is to know when they are hurt bad. How they can get
hurt doing anything. How you don’t want to be too protective. He said I had a done the right thing.
When we got to the
hospital, they took Mollie into the emergency room, and Dr. Barbara Bonkoski
came in. She’s an old family friend.
“When I heard it was
a 10-year-old girl west of Sturgeon Lake, I said, ‘Mollie Heiller,’ ” Barb said
with a smile.
Then Cindy came with our son, Noah. We watched as
Barb checked Mollie’s eyes, her grip, her reflexes in her hands and feet. “It doesn’t look like a
fracture,” Barb said. That’s when I breathed my first of many sighs of relief.
They did x-rays with Mollie still taped in place
to make sure everything was O.K., then took more when she was free of the tape. No fractures. Barb said it was a muscle strain, like you’d
get in a whiplash. Barb also
said I had done the right thing. It was too big a risk to ignore, she said.
Malika, with her friend Brittany, jubilant on her tramp many years later. Her last flip was that evening in 1996, however. |
Steve Popowitz came in. He’s a first responder
and a good friend. He wanted to make sure everything, was O.K.
It’s nice to know you have friends like that.’
We walked
out of the hospital shortly
after that. All was O.K., except for some very shook-up and relieved parents and child. Mollie thanked
me for doing what I had done.
I was glad too. One
side of me thought , “Maybe I over-reacted.
Maybe I should have waited for
morning, to see if the pain would go away.”
But the “What If” got in the way of that too
much. I just couldn’t do anything but what I did do.
I learned some lessons last Friday night. How much
I love my daughter. How grateful I am for her good health.
And how lucky we are
to have people like the First Responders ready to help in emergencies, even when
they are false alarms.
Thank you.
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