Single parenting: a learning experience ~ November 9, 1995
David Heiller I’m a single dad these days. My wife, Cindy, has gone away to help her mom recover from cancer surgery. Her absence makes me appreciate many things. David and I were partners, which made my many weeks away from my family so very hard. Funny, there are really no photos from that fall. We all survived with lots of love and understanding. Well, maybe not the house! When I think about how hard it is being a single parent, I think back to my own childhood. My dad died four months before I was born, so Mom raised us eight kids by herself and with the help of her mother, who lived upstairs. I can’t get Mom to reminisce about those good old days much, maybe because they weren’t so good. But when she does, she always mentions how Grandma was there to help, how she couldn’t have done it without her. Lately I’ve been thinking about Cindy in the similar manner. I couldn’t do this single parent thing very ...